In many cases there are doubts concerning various topics, such is the case of these excellent questions that someone I consider a good friend decided to do and now share with you some of my answers, hoping they can serve even a little to clarify these circumstances.
One of the values \u200b\u200bwe use in Youth Specialties says: "The questions are as important as the answers." Undoubtedly this is the case with these difficult questions and in depth.
Remember all I say you have to judge him (diakríno, review, separate or discern), perhaps my comments are not the best, but I hope to serve even a little to give some direction in the middle of this.
1 .- How do you not feel something for these people, and not hate them or not wanting pasártela crying about their attitudes to one?
I think you touch a key point about how it should be (not to feel something against the people) when we left somewhere in the middle of a difficult situation in which you are judged, or rejected defendant unfairly.
I am convinced that the key to this is: Discernment, learning to separate the person of the situations and attitudes.
As human beings one of the areas hardest battle is with this, as we were taught to us our own criteria based on how a person behaves, what is your lifestyle, or their attitudes towards a particular situation. This has led us to mix up the Self (the person), to make (their attitudes).
Paul speaks a little of this in Romans 7, which mentions clearly the difference between his being (spirit) and do (soul and body).
Rom 7:15 For what I do not understand it because I do what I want, but what I hate I do.
Rom 7:16 And if I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good.
Rom 7:17 So no longer I who do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
Rom 7:18 For I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwelleth no good, because what is right, but I can not do it.
Rom 7:19 For the good that I do not want, but the evil I do not, I do.
Rom 7:20 And if I do not want, and I do not do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
In his mind (his being) was doing good, but it was dominated by his flesh (his doing) so that their behavior was not what his being wanted, but what your doing as required.
We have to learn that the transformation that God does in our doing comes through to hold our flesh to the Spirit of God, which is a process in which the participation of the believer is only to be spiritually minded.
Rom 8:6 For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
God knows our condition and separated our being of our doing, so that our being has been purchased and we do (this is our flesh) is being transformed day by day.
When we those who have hurt us by making it difficult to love (agape) to them, but when we see the person's being, making a clear separation with his actions, then we love them unconditionally as was the love of God for us .
2 .- When you get to a church and you feel good, then you see their faults how do you live not disappointed in the work that should be doing and rather do the opposite? How do you manage to not get frustrated at seeing so many souls are being lost because someone decides to play to be the authority?
First of all I would like to make a separation very clear distinction between the term and what church is the congregation, so I recommend you read my article: " Being Church and Doing Church Congregating."
In every congregation I think we can find fault, because they are owned by men, but this kind of deception you speak of comes mainly from not understanding that the organization they have chosen to call "congregation or church "is not a biblical structure but a structure that has formed over the years and largely influenced by Catholicism.
In what we call "history of Christianity" which is given as a subject in Bible seminars, you realize as we have been influenced in many areas over time, shaping our structures to schemes that could be good or not, but in the end were formed and structured from a humanist perspective.
If you comment that these congregations are not doing what they should, but otherwise there are souls that are lost because someone decided to play "be the authority" is very likely to be because God has Discernment of Spirits as (1st Corinthians 12:7-12).
This is the ability to understand and see things that really come from God and those they are merely human, a clear distinction between true and false or emotional.
I am convinced that this is one of the gifts that unless we have taken advantage of within the Christian church as it was designed with the purpose of giving some direction to the leadership at the time who have this gift realizes something is wrong and it informs the leader or pastor of the congregation which is, creating a conflict for those who have the gift, because the schema of "authority" that the leaders have decided to take based on human patterns.
Surely God designed us as an organization and as such the authority has a full schedule different from the familiar (to understand I recommend the following articles: of Service Authority and Supreme Law).
If God made you as part of being sentinels of the plan he has for his church, feeling the frustration you feel not so bad, because this state can produce a change within us because of nonconformity that causes discomfort and this pushes us to find ways to make changes.
But at the same time one has to learn to leave it in God's hands, the self fulfilling his share, but not reaching the degree of disappointment in the church as the bride lamb.
If God gave you this gift, Himself has given you the ability to know how to handle this frustration leads to positive change in the middle of what you live.
Eze 3:17 Son of man, you have made you a watchman for the house of Israel. So when you hear my word, tell him from me.
3 .- How the hell you manage to ignore what you get to do, how badly you speak?
here is so important not to ignore what you get to do, but understand that accomplishes this purpose in your life.
When someone speaks ill of us, certainly cause anger, this is not something that is wrong, but is a natural reaction of our body to the circumstances we live, the problem is when anger becomes anger and anger to develop later in sin (Eph 4:26).
Mastering our emotions lead us to maturity. Christ is presented as a Lamb led to slaughter and not come out of his mouth any complaint (Isa 53:7), but at the same time shows as The Lion of the Tribe of Judah (Revelation 5:5), I think our character has to be molded to look more and more to Christ.
Many Sometimes we want to be only lions, but we must also learn to form in us the character of the Lamb.
Just as Jesus and the Father are one, he hopes that we too may be one of them (Jn 17:21) and this also involves the transformation of our character.
not ignore the critics or the false words to say against you, because you conform to the image of Christ and learn to not be frustrated, but leave your cares on Him
1Pe 1: 13 Therefore be alert and think well what they're doing, to always do the right thing. Full confidence that God will treat them well when Jesus Christ returns.
I hope that I can share with you some help you know how to go through this situation that you face, no doubt this is a process in which God wants to use us to transform your beloved but at the same time He uses the circumstances to conform increasingly to the image of Christ.
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